Specialties, ANXIETY AND PTSD, individual therapy Miriam Chor Freitas Specialties, ANXIETY AND PTSD, individual therapy Miriam Chor Freitas

What is Somatic EMDR?

When might Somatic EMDR be especially recommended over traditional EMDR?

Body Memories — physical sensations (pain, tightness, trembling) without clear verbal memories.
Developmental Trauma — early life trauma (neglect, attachment wounds) where the nervous system got shaped over time, not just by one event.
Chronic Health Conditions — like fibromyalgia, migraines, digestive issues linked to unresolved trauma.
Easily Overwhelmed — intense emotions or body reactions that feel too big, too fast.
No Clear Story — knowing you feel anxious, fearful, or "off," but not having clear memories to process.
Need for Slow Pace — needing gentle, body-based tracking rather than diving deep into heavy memories right away.

Somatic EMDR, is a new therapeutic approach that combines two powerful therapy modalities:

  • EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing), which helps people reprocess traumatic memories and resolve traumatization by stimulating bilateral brain activity (like side-to-side eye movements, tapping, or sounds).

  • Somatic Therapy, which focuses on the body's felt sense — meaning the sensations, tension, movements, and energy in the body — to help release trauma that's "stored" physically, not just cognitively.

When you combine them, Somatic EMDR helps a client not just think about a traumatic memory but feel and reprocess the body responses to it.

So how it looks in practice?

  • Before diving into heavy memories, a therapist might help the client build somatic resources (like grounding, noticing safety cues, or orienting in the present moment).

  • During reprocessing, instead of focusing solely on the memory, the client might track what's happening inside their body — for example, a tightness in the chest, a sense of heat, or a trembling.

  • The therapist may use bilateral stimulation while gently guiding the client to stay present with body sensations, allowing trauma energy stuck in the body to move and resolve.

Why it's important?
Trauma often bypasses words. The body holds reactions even when the mind "forgets."
Somatic EMDR brings healing to both mind and body.

How is somatic emdr different from traditional emdr?

Traditional EMDR Somatic EMDR

Main Focus: Primarily on cognitive memories: Focuses on both the cognitive memories and the

thoughts, images, beliefs, emotions linked body’s sensations and movements during to the trauma. processing.

Processing Style: Targets memories by Actively tracks what the body feels and does

activating them and using bilateral (tightness, shaking, numbness)

stimulation (like eye movements) to alongside memory processing.

process distress.

Client Awareness: Mostly asked about Client is also encouraged to notice

the memory, thoughts, emotions, and name bodily experiences:

and belief shifts. tension, breath changes, somatic impulses.

Goal: Reduce the distress and negative Release trapped trauma energy

beliefs linked to the trauma memory. in the body and restore nervous system

regulation, alongside cognitive healing.

Techniques Added: Follows 8 phases, May weave in grounding, titration, pendulation,

usually staying pretty structured. somatic resourcing, and more flexible tracking

of body experiences.

In Summary,

  • Traditional EMDR works a lot from the "neck up" (memory, emotions, cognition).

  • Somatic EMDR works from the "neck down, too" (nervous system, body sensations, instinctual survival responses).

Both can be very healing and effective— but with Somatic EMDR the process can be better paced, more body-centered, and more manageable to clients. It can be extra helpful for people whose trauma shows up physically (like chronic pain, dissociation, or deep anxiety without a clear "story"). Some clients feel safer with Somatic EMDR because it emphasizes going at the body’s pace and helps prevent overwhelm.

When might Somatic EMDR be especially recommended over traditional EMDR?

Body Memories — physical sensations (pain, tightness, trembling) without clear verbal memories.
Developmental Trauma — early life trauma (neglect, attachment wounds) where the nervous system got shaped over time, not just by one event.
Chronic Health Conditions — like fibromyalgia, migraines, digestive issues linked to unresolved trauma.
Easily Overwhelmed — intense emotions or body reactions that feel too big, too fast.
No Clear Story — knowing you feel anxious, fearful, or "off," but not having clear memories to process.
Need for Slow Pace — needing gentle, body-based tracking rather than diving deep into heavy memories right away.

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Challenging LGBTQIA+ Biases and Discrimination in our Communities in the 21st Century!

As an individual and a mental health provider, I find it disturbing that we are in the 21st century and we are still living in such a homophobic and transphobic world. We know that there have been people who have different genders and sexual orientations since the beginning of times; so why do we keep discriminating against them? Truthfully we probably have a lot more in common with them than we think. They are people who have jobs and families and do the same mundane things that we do on a daily basis. They are humans and they want to be loved and respected like everybody else. Why do we need to be so caught on on their gender expression or who they want to love or be with???

It saddens me to see my clients feel scared to “come out” and loose a loved one. Or not be able to invite theirs partners to family affairs. I feel grateful that I was raised in a tolerant environment where my parents modeled a positive regard for people who have different genders or sexual orientation.

I grew up in the 1970’s and 80’s (C’mon, I am not that old…haha…) and we had a live-in housekeeper who was a transgendered person. That was uncommon at the time but it was not an issue for my father and that attitude rubbed off on me. I also remember my other grieving the death of a gay friend who died of AIDS. I remember us dancing with him in the living room.

Unfortunately non-conforming people and sexually diverse people have essentially grown up and live in an intolerant world that does not feel safe and often encountering discouraging messages and hostile behaviors that create the experience of repeated trauma that leads to shame and fear which create anxiety and those who suffer from repeated trauma may have more severe symptoms of depression and anxiety that may lead to C-PTSD. TGNC people have a disproportionately high rate of mental illness that is influenced in part by lack of societal support.

TGNC people have been shown to have high levels of suicidal ideation and as many as 50% have attempted suicide in their lifetime. They are often the victims of hate crimes and at least 25% have reported being attacked in their lifetime.

Those who live on a more diverse gender spectrum are still placed into discrete “boxes” regarding their sexual orientation. It is important to understand that sexual orientation can present in many forms and can be fluid over time.

In addition to my multicultural and diverse background, I have also experienced prejudice and disclination so I can empathize with their challenges and I really support and enjoy working with LGBTQIA+ and TGNC people.

So come as you are, I am waiting for you! You will be welcomed, supported and empowered on your journey toward self-love, self-worth, self-compassion and healing!

Warmly,

Miriam

Starting therapy is not easy, it takes courage, so if you are ready to get started, call or email me to schedule your initial FREE 20 minute phone consultation at (858)842-0234 or miriam@miriamchorfreitas.com

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